Episode 18

The Ultimate Leadership Test: What Does Your Team Do When You Leave the Room?

Patrick van der Burght
Andrei Bob
40 min 43 sec
12 MAY 2026
“You can change people with pressure—so they do what you ask because you are the boss. But if you can change them from what is within them, then they stay changed. Even if you walk away and the pressure goes away, they keep performing that action.”

About this podcast

Managing a team by relying purely on authority and financial incentives is an incredibly expensive and exhausting strategy. While bonuses might create a short-term spike in performance, they rarely build long-term loyalty.

In this insightful conversation, Patrick sits down with fellow Cialdini Institute Licensed Trainer Andrei Bob to discuss the intersection of Lean Management and the science of persuasion. Andrei shares profound insights from his time working with large manufacturing companies, revealing that the true secret to operational efficiency isn’t just better procedures—it is ethical influence.

Whether you are leading a factory floor, a sales team, or an entire corporation, you will learn how to shift your team’s motivation from external pressure to internal drive.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

✅ The Limitations of Financial Motivation: Why relying on bonuses creates a culture where employees only ask, “What will I earn extra?” before stepping up.
✅ The Cat and Mouse Test: How to measure your true influence by looking at how your team operates when you are not in the room.
✅ The Unity Principle: How to align conflicting departments (like Sales and Production) by establishing a shared identity and mission before discussing individual KPIs.
✅ The Power of Co-Creation: Why asking your team to define their own targets creates significantly more internal pressure to succeed than simply assigning them a quota.
✅ Public Commitment: A brilliant, ethical strategy to ensure your team follows through on their promises by making their commitments active, voluntary, and public.
✅ Modelling Behaviour: A masterful story of a Philips CEO who used the Principle of Reciprocity to transform the cleanliness of an entire manufacturing plant.

Your Ethical Persuasion Challenge

Find the Shared Goal: Before your next tense cross-departmental meeting, spend the first five minutes establishing a shared mission. Remind everyone of the overarching goal you are all working towards before diving into individual KPIs.

Stop Assigning, Start Asking: The next time you need to delegate a project, do not hand out tasks. Present the challenge to the team and ask, “Who would like to take the lead on this?” Watch how much more committed they are to a task they volunteered for.

Model the Behaviour: Identify one standard you have been struggling to enforce with your team. Before you bring it up again, ensure you are flawlessly modelling that exact behaviour in your own daily work.

Resources Mentioned:

Guest: Andrei Bob. Connect with Andrei and share your insights with him on Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreibob/
Book Recommendation: Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Dr. Robert Cialdini
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Episode Topics:

Persuasion InsightsMotivationLeadershipSocial InfluenceGuest Interview

Transcript

Key Takeaways from This Episode

1. Persuasion strengthens lean management
Manufacturing systems and KPIs work better when leaders use ethical persuasion to inspire employees, not just manage them through rules and pressure.
2. Unity aligns departments
Shared goals help production, safety, sales, and procurement teams work together instead of competing over conflicting priorities.
3. People support goals they help create
Employees become more committed when leaders ask for their input and let them publicly commit to targets themselves.
4. Money isn’t enough to motivate long-term and often backfires
Bonuses can drive short-term results, but lasting performance comes from ownership, purpose, and internal motivation.
5. Leadership starts with example
Teams are more likely to follow standards and behaviours when leaders consistently model them first.